In the Name of
Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful
Extract from QUR’AANIC STUDIES – A Modern Tafsir PART II:
53. Ya ayyuha allatheena amanoo la tadkhuloo buyoota alnnabiyyi
illa an yu/thana
lakum ila taAAamin
ghayra nathireena inahu walakin itha duAAeetum faodkhuloo fa-itha taAAimtum faintashiroo
walamusta/niseena lihadeethin inna thalikum kana yu/thee
alnnabiyya fayastahyee minkum waAllahu layastahyee
mina alhaqqi wa-itha saaltumoohunna
mataAAan fais-aloohunna min wara-i hijabinthalikum atharu
liquloobikum waquloobihinna wama kana
lakum an tu/thoo rasoola Allahi wala an tankihoo azwajahu min
baAAdihi abadan inna thalikum
kana AAinda Allahi AAatheeman
33:53. O you who believe!
Enter not the houses of the Prophet unless invited there for a meal, but then
go not there too early as to wait for the meal to be ready. But enter at the
time you are invited, and as soon as you have finished your meals, disperse!
And linger not for a customary talk. This does indeed cause inconvenience to
the Prophet, but he is too embarrassed to tell you. And Allah is not
embarrassed to express the truth. And when you ask for anything from them
(ladies of the Prophet’s household), ask of them from behind a curtain. This
would be better for the purity of your hearts and of theirs. And it behoves you
not to cause inconvenience to the Messenger of Allah, nor to marry his wives
after him. This is indeed a matter of great significance with Allah.
These divine instructions were primarily meant for believers
living on this earth at the time the Prophet was living. But the etiquette, the
instructions point to, should largely be taken care of even now, while
accepting invitations from friends, relatives, and others.
Mohammad Shafi
Friday, the 12th
of March 2021.